Sometimes We Say Things We Really Don't Mean

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By AEvans

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Sometimes we say things we really do not mean

not intentionally or on purpose to cause any sorrow or pain.

Sometimes we express what we feel,

Sometimes our thoughts can be all over the page,

Sometimes we are just looking for others to listen,

Sometimes we are looking for others to read,

Sometimes people expect us to be happy all of the time,

and when we are sad or emotional showing anger or pain,

they will attack without asking about your pouring rain,

Sometimes we just need to reflect on what we did

misunderstood were we acting like a kid?

Sometimes it pays to just sit back and observe,

so when there is a comment it does not sound like

a blurb,

Sometimes there are those very important people who

make you realize that it is o.k. to feel all of those emotions

bottled up inside and they are the ones that are always

at your side,

Sometimes once all of the pressure is released,

Take time to listen, Take time to read, but most

of all try not to feed.

When people lash out, when people are in pain,

they wish to only have someone pay attention,

and make certain there sane.

Name calling, screaming, bashing someone down,

will not help the person whose insides are turned

upside down.

Nobody walks in each others shoes but sometimes

a virtual friend is better to choose.

When the rain is over and the sunshine rises,

You finally return back to normal, well sometimes.

copyright © 2010

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HubPagesReport 2 years ago

Very nice. The real reflections of human mind which are always happening. Thumbs up your page.

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VioletSun Level 5 Commenter 2 years ago

Touching words of wisdom. A thumbs up from to your page as well.

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G Miah Level 3 Commenter 2 years ago

That was great AEvans, it really means a lot of things. There are a lot of messages in that poem, if only some people understood.

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

HubPagesreport: Thank you sometimes it feels so good to express our thoughts through poem.:)

Violet Sun: Thank you my dear friend. :)

G Miah: There certainly is many messages and I know you understood.:)

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ehern33 2 years ago

So much to gain from this poem, and how often we forget to listen or acknowledge what has been said. Sometimes it is just the need to lend an ear, an act of love that you understand and feel also. As you listen or read, you will be clensed as well. Loved it!!

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eovery 2 years ago

aevans. nice poem,

Did you and hubby fight again, or someone else.

I hope you feel better, and patch things up. You are too sweet to be feeling bad.

Keep on hubbing.1

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

ehern33:I am glad that you enjoyed and you also understood the poem. ((big hugs))/:)

eovery: I let some tension go yesterday, I was naughty but it is all water under the bridge and I am glad that you enjoyed the poem.:)

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Hello, hello, 2 years ago

I have really enjoyed reading this. So many thoughts in it. Thank you.

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RevLady Level 3 Commenter 2 years ago

AEvans, SOMETIMES I think you know humanity. I really enjoyed reading this reflection of profound wisdom. It is so true. I appreciate your sensitivity to the deep love and understanding needs of us all.

It reminds me of God's unconditional love for us. He looks beyond our SOMETIMES outlandish behavior to meet our deepest needs.

Thank you AE, for contributing such joy to my wonderful new day that has just begun.

Forever His,

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BDazzler 2 years ago

Two thumbs up, Julianna!

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alekhouse Level 4 Commenter 2 years ago

This is so true. Really enjoyed it....Thanks.

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Denizee 2 years ago

Very good. Thought provoking, and the complexities in life cause many of us to do things we normally would do under certain circumstances - I enjoy your posts, thanks for sharing.

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janiek13 Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

I can relate. I have a very good friend who does all that for me.

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dohn121 Level 3 Commenter 2 years ago

I can take comfort in knowing knowing that I have many friends who are always ready to listen to me here on HP. I empathize with you wholeheartedly, J!

bonny2010 2 years ago

really liked this poem ... funny but when I was reading this poem a little tune came into my head ...its goes ..all things wise and wonderful etc etc.

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

Hello,hello: You are welcome! :)

Rev Lady: God certainly does give us unconditional love even when others are not paying attention he certainly is, thank you for your wonderful comment and I am glad that it made your day.:)

BDazzler: Thanks! :)

alekhouse: You are so welcome! :)

Denizee: I am glad that you understand :)

janiek13: I am so glad that we are in agreeance. :)

dohn121: Thank you bunches!!! ((Big Hugs)) :)

bonny2010: I have never ever that song, who sings it please share I would love to listen to it. :)

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Candie V Level 4 Commenter 2 years ago

It is said "hurt people, hurt people".. I think this is more the rule than the exception.

Thanks AE!!

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

Candie V: It is a sad rule isn't it? I am glad that you appreciated ! :)

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readytoescape 2 years ago

AE,

Sometimes you just have to rant, to let out the conflicting thoughts and emotions. Once out on the table, as in a jigsaw puzzle, they can be pushed around and formed into the picture of your true opinion and feeling.

Don’t let others steal any of the pieces, for then it would not be your picture.

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

readytoescape: I will always remember that and never again will I try to allow anyone to steal my pieces. :)

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Tammy Lochmann Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

I have never been much of a poetry reader, just the facts kinda girl you know. But I have learned here at HP that you can see into someone's personality who writes poetry they put just a little bit of their soul into writing the poem.

Thanks for sharing this I enjoyed reading it.

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

Tammy Lochmann: Poetry is amazing and you do see into there soul, there love, there, pain, there joy, there sorrow it is all in the words they write. I am glad that you enjoyed this hub. :)

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prettydarkhorse Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

Hi, we understand AEvans and there is nothing wrong with it, And I love that you can also write poems aside frrm your other articles too, you are courageous woman with a caring heart, Maita

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Angela Blair Level 7 Commenter 2 years ago

Beautifully written and so very tender and true. Thanks for this Hub -- makes us all look a little deeper! Best, Sis

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s0126phoenix 2 years ago

wow, that really reminds me of past relationships. i only hope i never treat others like that.

very nice hub!

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

prettydarkhorse: That was such a wonderful thing to say and thank you for enjoying my poem.:)

Angela Blair: You are so welcome and I am glad that you enjoyed! :)

s0126phoenix: It makes us all think a little more and I am certain that you will not ever treat others in that way.:)

mdawson17 2 years ago

AEvans loved this! This one needs to be published in a magazine!!

Good Work Girl

Answer Your Phone (LOL):)

mdawson17

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

mdawson17: I am glad you like it and we are bracing for a storm, I know it will be just fine but we are prepared thank you for enjoying the poem it took 15 minutes to write it and I wrote it as I typed it onto HP. :)

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manlypoetryman 2 years ago

Well done, AE... I enjoyed this poem journey of trying to at least...walk in other peoples footsteps...even if it is in cyberspace. Seems we could all listen (Or read...in the case of text) more...before making conclusions! I got'ta remind myself this message...that comes from a person with a good heart!

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MordechaiZoltan 2 years ago

Very very good hub. I can relate well to having people not be so kind when I am not witty charming and happy. This gives me much to think about. Thanks!

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

manlypoetryman: I don't know how I overlooked your comment my apologies! Thank you for reading it and I am sincerely happy that you appreciated it. :)

MordechaiZoltan: You are welcome I wrote that because I was not being myself one day and it was nice to place those words on paper. :)

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Moulik Mistry 2 years ago

So well meaning, myself being a poet of sorts I know how difficult it is to put together in simple words, very well done...

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

Moulik Mistry: Thank you ! :)

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Sundaymoments Level 1 Commenter 2 years ago

I came to your site just reread this poem in hopes that you had it published once again! Thank you for opening your heart to me once again!

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

Sundaymoments: It has been up for a very long time and sometimes I come back to read my own words to, you have been forgiven. :)

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Sundaymoments Level 1 Commenter 2 years ago

Thank You please email with what I owe you as being forgiven is doing all things right pleasing and Christ Like in Gods eye

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Faybe Bay Level 1 Commenter 2 years ago

Don't know how I missed this. Sorry I have been so absent. I was not myself. This is probably my favorite hub of all.

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

Faybe Bay: I have been missing to lately with all going on with mom life has been a little tough , I thank you for reading this poen and I am glad that you enjoyed! :)

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Wayne Brown Level 7 Commenter 2 years ago

Nice poem, A! We can never recover that last minute or those loose words that run quickly off the end of our tongues. I use to tell my kids..."think before you do!" Thanks for reminding me! WB

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AEvans Hub Author 2 years ago

Wayne Brown: You are welcome and you are correct we cannot reach out and take them back :)

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yyoushouldknow 19 months ago

very touchy, nice

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jayb23 13 months ago

"You finally return back to normal, well sometimes". Simply amazing AE. Just loved the way you have compiled it. Long time..how have u been?

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AEvans Hub Author 13 months ago

yyoushouldknow: Thank you. :)

jayb23: Considering all I have came a long way since mom's passing and my uncle's not including our dog. But I certainly have a long way to go. Getting back to writing is something needed so that I can focus on other things. I am glad to see you are also still here. :)

JadedLove 8 months ago

Voted up, awesome and beautiful. Sad to say that in my heart I have said things I did not mean and to this day I wake up to an empty home with shadows calling my name.

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AEvans Hub Author 8 months ago

JadedLove: All of us do, but instead of looking at the shadows look at what will come. As much as it hurts all of us get through the pain. You will too! :)

JadedLove 8 months ago

I believe you, I will mend in time.

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AEvans Hub Author 8 months ago

JadedLove: You will. :)

JadedLove 8 months ago

Jaded I am but it is in Johnny where I stand.

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AEvans Hub Author 8 months ago

JadedLove: There you go! Be strong! :)

JadedLove 8 months ago

I will be tonight

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AEvans Hub Author 8 months ago

JadedLove: You can do it! :D

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spkanu 8 months ago

After reading your poem, I am now inspired to write poems about love instead of poems about everything else...thanks.

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AEvans Hub Author 8 months ago

spkanu: I would recommend writing about everything. That is what makes you simply you. I am glad that I have inspired you. Glad that you are also enjoying HubPages! Be careful its addicting. lololo! :D

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Just Ask Susan Level 8 Commenter 2 months ago

I love this poem!

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mljdgulley354 Level 7 Commenter 2 months ago

This is a beautiful poem. I am glad I came across it today. Thank you for sharing it.

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AEvans Hub Author 2 months ago

Just Ask Susan: Thank you for bringing this one back to life. I am happy you enjoyed it. :)

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AEvans Hub Author 2 months ago

mljdgulley354: Thank you so much. And thank you for the kudos. :)

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Anamika S Level 5 Commenter 2 months ago

We are responsible for our words, thoughts and actions. So, it is important that we think before we speak. Once said it cannot be taken back. So the technique I use when I get angry and know that I may speak something I regret later is closing my eyes and counting up to ten. And I can say that it calms me down. But I have to admit that I am quite blunt when I express my opinion. What I think I say. Sugarcoating has never been my habit so though my opinion is honest, many people take offense. Good Poem! Voted up and Sharing!

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AEvans Hub Author 2 months ago

Anamika S: Sure coating can sometimes do more harm then good. We do have to think before we speak, because we can never take back the words that word said. Thank you for enjoying my and my poem. :)

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